Figure out what that looks like for you and make it happen. But here's the key - when I say diet, I mean your daily lifestyle. If there was one caveat, I would say don't go on a diet, simply change the way you eat and FOSTER A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH FOOD. If you are trying to lose weight, you will need to cut some calories and make some adjustments. There will be some discomfort but that's OK - it won't last forever. You just need to ask yourself what is important to you.
In my food journey, I've found that I no longer believe in cutting out any of your macronutrients - proteins, fat or carbs. Yep - you heard me right - you gotta have carbs! Each one of these groups is referred to as a macronutrient because your body REQUIRES all three of them. Sure, cutting-out carbs will lead to faster weight loss, but it isn't sustainable in the long-term and it is a main source of fuel for your body. This is where macro-counting or IIFYM (If It Fits Your Macros) has been crucial for me. This has helped me incorporate the 80/20 rule which is that you eat awesome 80% of the time and allow for some of those indulgences 20% of the time. Or, it can also work into your daily habits - eat 80% real, wholesome food throughout the day and 20% indulgences or a less than wholesome food. For me, I tend to eat pretty on target during the week and enjoy a dinner out with my husband on the weekend and one of my favorite frosted cookies from time to time. With macro counting though, I'm able to incorporate these foods into my day and even stay on track if I just plan it in to my daily macro allowance.
If you are new to macros, search around the web and read-up because it has helped me to have a good relationship with food and to not have any one food off the table. It is some work at first, but withe the various apps that are out there and available, the learning curve is drastically reduced and it only takes me a couple of minutes at the beginning of my day to plan it all out. I've heard people refer to it as daily game of food tetris but it has helped me bring balance to the force! I don't like being afraid of food. I also love food probably a little more than I should - especially anything with frosting. With macro-counting, nothing is off the menu! I use My Fitness Pal and love it.
I didn't say you'd find a way, I said you'd make the way. This implies that you are definitely in charge of what you put in your mouth and you have to make it happen.
So, where do you start? With the basics of course! Make this simple and choose to enjoy it!
Become a Label-Reader. Look first at the list of ingredients and if it makes the cut, then examine the calories, sugars, fat and protein. Sugar is the true culprit in what is making us as a society fat - not fat. Keep sugars down, protein higher, fat moderate. If the ingredient list is ridiculously long, don't even bother scanning through it - it's an automatic no-no. I've also provided a substitutions list for many of your regular cooking staples. Yes, going real is more expensive but what you spend at the store, you will save in health care expenses and overall wellbeing!
AVOID
High Fructose Corn Syrup and Corn Syrup
Partially or Fully Hydrogenated Oils/ and SEED OILS
MSG or monosodium glutamate (including Autolyzed Yeast, Yeast Extract)
Artificial Sweeteners
Artificial Colors
Artificial Flavors (Anything using 'artificial' means it is a fake food)
Preservatives - sodium benzoate, TBHQ, BHT
Propylene Glycol
Carageenan
White Sugar
White Flour
White Rice
Anything you can't pronounce on a food label
GMO's or Genetically Modified Organisms - Look for foods that are labeled GMO-free. Canola oil, corn oil and sugar are often genetically modified. When we eat these foods, the chemicals that have altered them, will alter us.
Basically work to avoid anything 'white.' I know - this seems extreme. Read up on it! All sorts of all-things-scary happen to our products that end up white. Most products in this category are genetically modified and our bodies don't know what to do with it. Our body actually protects us by wrapping toxins in fat and storing them. No thank you! But not to worry - brown rice (Trader Joe's has frozen brown rice that you can heat up on the stove top in about 3 minutes and it is dang good!), cane sugar or evaporate cane sugar, and organic flour. Now, do I stick to this all the time? No. I do a pretty darn good job, but you win some and you lose some and being flexible is a good thing.
Umbrella statement to label-reading: If you don't know what it is or what's in it, don't get it!

*Granulated White Sugar
Swap this out for organic cane sugar, evaporated cane juice sugar, coconut palm sugar or raw, organic honey. Honey is actually a superfood and has trace minerals and other properties that are good for our bodies. The only caveat here is that it is still a sugar and calories can add up quickly here. Other sweeteners that are good are Grade B Maple Syrup, Brown Rice Syrup, Coconut Sugar, Raw Agave, dates and stevia. Stevia is a no-calorie sweetener that comes from the stevia leaf. Trickier to bake with but the drops are great for smoothies and other drinks, yogurt, etc. You want to look for sugar replacements that have a low-glycemic index factor.
*White Flour
This one is tough. The best I got is simply swapping this out for an organic flour. I've tried whole wheat flour and spelt, barley, or other whole grain flours. Friends, a minimally processed unbleached white flour is still pertinent to have on hand; I have not been successful in various recipes using nothing but whole grain flours. I simply try to go organic and then don't use a ton of flour.
*White Rice
Swap this out for brown rice, wild rice, basmati or jasmine rice or quinoa.
* Cooking Oils (Canola, Corn, Vegetable Oils)
Swap these out for olive, coconut, avocado and palm oils.
Coconut oil is the only oil that are not heat-sensitive or have what is called a high 'smoke point.' All other oils, including olive oil, become trans-fats at high temperatures; the molecules actually 'flip' in the heating process and become the very harmful oils we are trying to avoid. Coconut oil is great to cook with but will have a flavor when using it to sauté foods. However, it is great in cookies, breads, cakes and other baked goods actually giving foods greater moisture. Don't be alarmed when you purchase it as it is a solid below 97 degrees and a liquid above that. I use avocado oil for most everything else these days.
*White Table Salt
Swap this for Real Salt, Himalayan Sea Salt or an Arctic Sea Salt. Real salts have many of the trace minerals and iodine that our bodies actually require and are very beneficial. Now, if the label claims that it is a sea salt and it is gorgeously white, avoid it as it has most likely been bleached.
Other great pantry items:
Bragg's Apple Cider Vinegar
Nutritional Yeast (great substitute for cheese)
Chia Seeds, Flax Seeds, Hemp
All manner of nuts! Almonds, walnuts, pecans, cashews, brazil nuts, sunflower seeds


Food has evolved along with man to fit his lifetsyle; a good deal of what we eat is no longer real food. In this day and age, our food has the capability to wreak havoc on every major organ, hormone, and cell in our body. Sadly enough, it takes doing a little research to really understand what our food is comprised of and how that influences the big picture - our health. The nutrient density of fruits and veggies continues to decrease, hormones and antibiotics in our meats are affecting the human growth cycle and creating superbugs; chemical processes used to enhance taste, beautify appearance and prolong shelf-life all alter the course of our body's natural function. It is time to unlearn what you have learned!
Fats are necessary and wonderful for your body! Fat is fuel for our brains (our brain actually burns the most calories from fat) and protects the cells in our body! I look for grocery store items that are full fat or low-fat depending on the ingredients. I'm not afraid! And you shouldn't be either! In fact, I have seen numerous studies that have shown the healthiest people do not shy away from fats. Extra calories do come from fat so this 'indulgence' calls for moderation and of course, knowledge concerning the right types of fat.
Sources of healthy fats: olive oil, coconut oil, MCT oil, nuts, seeds, avocados, real butter, (even real cream - a great way to even out the carbs in pasta). Coconut oil is absolutely amazing and if your metabolism needs a little kick start this is it. It is immediately processed in the liver as energy.
With all that being said, the fat you do need to be on the look-out for is hydrogenated or partially-hydrogenated oils - this is one of many ingredients that is so incredibly naughty. The thing that kills me is that like so many other naughty ingredients, it is in EVERYTHING! In Dr. Bob's Guide to Stop ADHD in 18 Days, he discusses how improper fat metabolism is a probable root cause of ADHD. He states:
Eeek. Why do we want to eat foods that mess with messages being sent to the brain? Because they are delicious? I get it. But, if you really do want to make some change, consider, well, making some changes. The really gross part is how long some of these ingredients linger in our bodies for.
The half-life of trans fatty acids or partially hydrogenated fats is 51 days. After 51 days, one-half of the negative effects of this man-made fat have been processed, but the body needs an additional 51 days to complete the process. After these 51 days, there is still a 25% residual.(37)

Sugar is also an 'anti-nutrient' which means it robs your body vital minerals, vitamins and nutrients in order compensate for and process the sugar; another reason why so people are vitamin deficient. It lowers your immune system leaving you open to illness. Naughty stuff.
Processed, dead foods require our bodies to find enzymes, minerals and vitamins from other parts of our body to adequately break-down the meal - this is where a great deal of our deficiencies come from. When we cook our veggies at high heats, those precious enzymes and minerals are destroyed. I admit, raw veggies aren't my favorite so I've found various ways to enjoy them; go with frozen, lightly steamed, pureed in a strong blender or throw everything into a giant salad with a homemade salad dressing (the latter are my favorite. Homemade dressings are SO easy and flavorful!).
SOME GOOD FOOD RULES AND PRINCIPLES FOR DAILY EATING
-Make sure you have three full meals a day and listen to what your body needs when it comes to snacking. Everybody has a different say on what is best for your body but do give your digestive system at least two hours in between meals and snacks to allow your body to tap into its glycogen stores. Some mornings I can skip the mid-morning snack but others day I can't do it.
-Drink ALL the water. Half your body weight in ounces in water a day is the rule of thumb, but I've been drinking 120 oz/day and liking it. I carry my water bottle with me everywhere I go to the point where even my son notices and comments on the offhand chance that I left it behind. Drink twenty minutes prior to and twenty minutes after you meals to allow proper digestion and to avoid the diluting of your nutrients. IF YOU ARE MISSING YOUR GALLBLADDER, TAKE A DIGESTIVE ENZYME WITH EVERY MEAL. I'm in that boat.
-Make conscious eating decisions. This means that if you choose to eat a cookie, be okay with that and enjoy it! If you have weight-loss goals though, ask yourself if you really want to eat it? Is it a '10?' Do you love it? Is it worth the ingredients and calories. I LOVE to eat. I LOVE food. And what a blessing to live in a day and age where food is in such wonderful abundance. Be grateful for and love your food. Take in the aroma, savor each bite chewing slowly allowing your body's digestive process to work for you. It's an experience!
What a lovely blog! Thank you for taking so much time and putting so much effort into posting all of this information! I love this list!
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